Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. It’s hard to forgive someone who is the love of your life. “Prayer is the greatest and powerful weapon in the struggle to maintain your marriage.” James 5:16 Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective. If it’s worth holding on to I think you should try to save your marriage and reconcile.

Do you agree to reconcile and renew your vows? marriage is not easy I have been married for ten years and I refuse to let the devil have this marriage. I will fight everyday until our last days to death to us apart. Think about a time in your marriage that you thought you could never get over. What was some of the skills you use to cope with? Where they difficult or easy to task? Did your spouse care to listen and try to work the issues out?  share and comment your testimony could be someone else way to cope through a tough situation. we all need to understand that we have choices.

Ephesians 4:31-32