Comment down below I would love to hear from you and some of the things you do to manage your daily life.
What is causing the fear in your life?
According, to Merriam Webster, fear is a noun. known as an unpleasant often strong emotion caused by anticipation or awareness of danger.
Now my question to others why do we as people let fear consume us from completing our goals? there is no danger in wanting to do better in life. However, I can give you a couple of reason why we as individuals let anxiety get in the way of personal goals, business goals, or even career goals. I have experienced plenty of days of anxiety( stressful situations) not so much of fear (danger). we as individuals get so caught up in fear which distracts us from the work that God has planned for us to do. what is God plan for us beside born to live and die? It is too spread his love and grace all through the world with our special talents that he has blessed upon us and please do not say I do not have a special talent. because we are all creative in some form or fashion. you just have to find your niche and purpose for wanting more in life.
The devil (Lucifer) knows your reward is a blessing from God and will bring great things. so, his goal is to try to do anything to place fear, discomfort, bad thoughts, depression, anxiety, laziness, negative spirits, negative people in your life to confuse you and throw you off-balance of succeding in life. I have been through so much that I refuse to allow the devil to come in my life and disturb what God has planned for me. have you? I have been disrespected, talked about, ignored, taunted, and laugh at for the last time by the devil. He shall not have what God has for me and will not place fear, discomfort, bad thoughts, depression, anxiety, laziness, negative spirits, or negative people in my life.
I have noticed that life can take you as far as you are willing to go. even if you feel like why I have to work a bit hard than others to get were, I want to be in life or trying to be. never second guess yourself for wanting to improve your life for better. what God has for you is what was meant for you and not anyone else. we as people need to understand that every walk of life will not be the same. We all want to accomplish something in life, but we must realize that it needs to be done in order. I found out that planning, time management, consistency, or creating a vision board can be beneficial for me as well as meditation or prayer to relieve those stressful situations.
When you begin to embrace God in your life all those discomforting things seem to be replaced as a breeze in life. John 5:3,4 “Jesus never said that it would be easy”. so with great dedication and hard work learn to lean on God to help you maintain in life. For the people who have not gotten to this place in their life as of yet. I pray for all who may be experiencing this discomfort and send those bad thoughts, depression, anxiety, laziness, negative spirits, negative people back to the pits of hell where they belong. I pray that God comes into your life as he did mines and remove any negative thought or spirits and replace them with a clean spirit, happiness, hopefulness, encouragement, inspiration, motivation, strength, love and a powerful spirit for God, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit.
I hope this article has encouraged you as much as it did when I was writing it. We all need that inspiration from someone other than ourselves. If I didn’t have the support from peers, family, and God. I don’t know where I would be today.
Credit is something we as Black African-American have not taken the time to understand and acknowledge that this is something we need in life. I encourage anyone who is out there struggling with debt to contact your professional debt collectors and sort out your problems. In addition, set up a payment plan to show you can be a responsible individual or business person. with just a single phone call can change your problems for good. If you need help try to seek resources within the community that can assist you with your debt.
We all have experienced hardships in our life but in order to be able to fix those issue, we as people must learn to communicate with others to sort out any type of hardship that you may be dealing with. I can really talk about this for hours because I was one of those teenagers who went and bought things without fully understanding interest rates and how interest could and can increase my bill if I did not keep my payments up to date. Not only did I lack in fully understanding credit debt and interest rates. I use to lack in communication as well. which later in life lead me several hardships in life. now that am an adult and have learned the proper way to conduct business I can spread the knowledge to others.
Cause and Effect
For example, imagine a 17-year-old teenager or individuals at the age of 21 to 27 ready to explore the world of driving. In order to drive, you must have a vehicle right. so he or she decides to purchase a vehicle on credit with no down payment and high-interest rates without even understanding what is considered a high-interest rate. You could become a victim of high debt and paying more for a car without even knowing it. Which would later cause you to lack in payments? In return, this could hinder you over a grace period and ruin your credit and who would want derogatory marks (generally stay on your report for 7- 10 years) on their credit, not me.
Would you like to know how you can fix your credit?
Credit Karma is an awesome way to get in touch with old debt to settle your differences. They provided me with my debt collectors contact information and resources to help me manage my credit. I just want to encourage people who don’t ask for help because I understand. I have experienced several hardships in my life before, I learned how to manage my finances; so that my debt would decrease. now I must say it feels great to not receive those hasty bills and debt collector phone calls.
Here are a couple of steps I chose to take to take minimize my debt so I can have manageable credit once again.
A Couple of Suggestion to Payout Debt
Remember no one can understand if you don’t speak up and seek help.
To not have resources is understandable but to have them and don’t utilize them is just a waste. So, I encourage people to make time to understand how debt, credit, and interest rates are established and how your credit score can be affected if you don’t carefully manage your finances.
Have you ever had an experience where a strategic decision intended to satisfy someone was hurried and backfired? What was the long-term effect of that decision?
Communication is such a high priority that I found my family lacks. Being opened and straight forwarded is not considered unethical. I’m in my ISCOM/386 course and it’s teaching me so many things about the quality of service. The material is so in-depth that the majority of it not only relates to business but society and real-life issues as well. I have come across many conversations at work and home. In addition, I realize that when the specific conversation starts off with good intentions some people will reject the facts your stating and interpret the message wrong. This is where the conversation can backfire whether it’s ethical or unethical.
Before applying psychological something triggers the other person when psychology is poorly applied. It’s something that the other person didn’t understand that makes the conversation go from good intentions to bad intentions. The conversation begins to decreases because the person doesn’t agree with what you’re saying due to lack of knowledge.
Have you ever been in this situation? If so, what are some things that backfired with you and how did you determine a strategy to undo what’s been done.
Here are a few things you can do to turn the situation around?
Until next time be blessed 😊
And remember God Loves You and So do I
Hey, everyone, I want to try something new. And get a group going where we can discuss daily things that arise in our daily lives and kind of have that support team of positivity as well as information and resources to help one another. I believe talking about problems are great but not everyone gets that positive feedback that he or she is looking for.
I’m also looking for an admin that can help moderate the group and grow with me as well. There are several things we will be discussing in this group to help with the move of positive empowerment for women and men. I also will be doing Friday’s self-promotion in the group to expand your brand and image and in the future add more.
If you are looking to help with the growth please join the group or inbox me on more ideas to help expand this group of fellowship its all for a positive cause.
I totally went into burnout a couple days ago before I told my family that I refuse to move or lift one finger unless I choose to. We moms tend to be the soldier of the family when it comes to prayers, organizing, planning, and scheduling.
Being a wife and a mother of four out of five children still in the home can get hectic real fast with all of these different personalities and task they each have.
I read an article in one of my blog groups which brought me to write about this post here. she brought up some great point about burnout mom’s and how we tend to overwhelm ourselves by putting our children in any physical activity to keep them busy. She also asked have you ever thought about how you as the mom would have to attend everything your children do? I didn’t think about that part.
So let’s take a walk in my daily life as a mom. one of my sons finally plays middle school football after really trying out after two years he finally made his mind up. Next, he wants to try for basketball proud mom I must say. not too much of a hassle at first but then adding in his extra task to my schedule added a curveball 😩.
Things had gotten a bit hectic with the schedule even though, I’m a stay at home mom of 4/5 kids in the home. I still have to drive to three different schools, babysit 2 of my great nephews for time to time out the week, as well as study for two different courses from two different schools. The life of going back to school as an adult😔🤔😂.
After school then pick the other children up from their designated area. At this time I probably haven’t even had a bite to eat because the phone is ringing with a load of emails and teacher calling for whatever reason.
Finally, I make it home then here comes a 10th grader, 8th grader, 6th grader, and 5th-grader all need help with their homework and tons of conversation that require long debates. I’m like well who is gonna help me😭. Let alone dinner has to be prepared. my husband works the graveyard shift. So, I’m pretty much- doing everything while he sleeps during the day😩.
However, I decided that I was no longer going to be doing all of this on my own. I begin to pray and ask God to lead me in the right way with a clear mind to maintain what some people would call this a hectic” schedule.
Sometimes I’m like where do I get the strength from 🤔 “GOD” and still be a loving wife, a disciplined mother, and still in my right mind with the right spirit.
Do that sound like a task you can handle? Don’t forget hungry people every day looking supper😏.
Theirs three things that get me through the week besides coffee and cigarettes.
3. And Meditation
Some may so oh no cigarettes yeah, I puff every now and then and after I just add those two bad habits to my prayer list. Don’t forget we are all humans and life is a working progress.
I truly believe with these you would make life more manageable.
I begin to strategize a plan to get everyone on task and make things a bit smoother.
This is the part when super moms turn to super warriors.
“Let’s get organize”
1. the plan begins with a family meeting.
2. Schedule chores out for the week.
3. All notification of any event or meeting form kids has to be submitted to super mom/ super warrior before the day its due.
(FYI) for some reason kids love to tell you oh mom I need this and that as you drive them to school and your like when it’s due uh today 😩.
4. Make sure kids are on board with scheduling and aware of all duties assigned.
(FYI) if you have to write it down and place it on the fridge that ok to whatever helps keep things smooth for the family.
5. Place hubby on duties a marriage is consist of two. now my husband is in control of carpooling in the am. While I take the pm shift.
Since I begin analyzing and creating a concept to keep this “hectic” schedule on the task. I have created a system that benefits everyone accordingly.
So now kids are getting their clothes organized at night doing homework as instructed, while I focus on my education. Hubby still gets to sleep after dropping everyone off in the am. This gives me plenty of energy to cook a meal of my choice because I’m not burned out or overwhelmed by supermom duties and everyone is happy. keeping some order of operation allowed me to keep things in order.
I hope you enjoyed listening to my day as a super mom and remember If we as mothers don’t take care of ourselves and implement strategies or ask for help when needed a burnout is soon to come.
Health and stress is no match for super moms we have to be equipped as super warriors so we may live a long life to hear and see all the things our children, grandchildren etc. endure.
Until next time remember God loves you and so do I.
Be blessed and stress -free because your health does matters.🤗
Hey everyone I just want to thank each and every one of you for all the support you have been giving me from the shares, likes, and comments even on my facebook page reconcile and renewed. In addition, this blog has expanded my way of expressing myself tremendously.
However, I will be taking a short break because I am a full-time student and graduation is coming soon so I am staying really focus on my studies. I will return soon with loads of great content and much to talk about on “Christian Disciple”.
Before I go I want to leave you with four things that have to help me on my journey to complete some of my goals which are:
Until next time be blessed
And remember God loves you and so do I