The love of being married bring so many life settings, accomplishment, struggles, cries for sadness and joy.
the love of marriage made bondage be self-explanatory. for the ones who may need an explanation (the support that you receive from-each other daily). my husband’s makes sure he tells me he loves me and could not see himself on this earth without me and I feel the same about him. learning from past and future experience has made my soul more pure then anything outside your marriage.
The will to communicate, listen, and deal with the most difficult conversation. ( something you would think you would never have talk about or support each other for no matter what). that bondage of marriage is so surreal and which magnify GOD, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit. Just as I’m doing now as I press against my keyboard to express the love and magnitude of feelings and companionship for my friend who became my best friend then became my lover and know forever my spouse unto death to us apart. the phrase of “I AM MY BROTHERS KEEPER” should be listed somewhere in marriage because of the loyalty and Love that we share for one another is oh so real and I could not see myself without him or with anyone else.
Things in life can happen without your control sometime. back in 2010 or 2011. And I blame it on old age if I cannot remember the exact year.
my husband was shot. I received the information in code while I was at work. stating come home. My mind begin to race. mind you he was just a couple feet away from my daughter inside the home and one of my siblings while he was was outside our complex apartment. I could only imagine me being right there with him taking care of his every need and worried for the safety of my family as I was driving home. my heart was beating so fast as my thoughts begin to race about is he OK? where is my baby daughter? and well-being of the whole situation. In addition, I had to take care of that man as if I had a toddler all over again and we momma bears love are children get it. So I begin bathing, showers, clothing him, teaching him how to walk again, feeding him, changing him because of the colonoscopy bag. therapist and doctor’s appointments, etc , as well has managing a hotel housekeeping department full staff😤. now I say that to say this he has turned the favor for me my rock and shiny star.
I am currently fighting stage 2B cervical cancer everyday since July, 25th 2019. diagnose May 8th, 2019. stay tune for that article ” Finding out how I had Cancer”. with that being sad my husband have not missed nor left me at any appointments, surgery, meeting, awareness appointment or anything. he has been full supportive. even though he has to work a third shift job he still get’s me to all appointment with no sleep until finished. so you can imagine the stress level and tiredness he has endured daily, weekly, and almost a full month of my treatment plan 😢😤🤧. It has been over and beyond high level stress for the both of us as well as me writing this article over more than 8 times call it chemo brain I tell you. not fun at all but we maintain by the grace of God.
The love of being married comes with no instructions or guides and so much more than just saying vows, I love you, and putting a ring on a person finger. It is a full time job of companionship, sacrifice, teamwork, stability, capability, courage, and so much more but those are some of the main things we do as a couple just to give you a general idea. my recommendation support each other to the day you both depart. now I don’t mean stay in a relationship that is unhealthy or abusive, verbally, physically, or mentally. please seek help and remove yourself from any situation as quickly as possible “All lives do matter“. but glorifying each other through the most horrible situations creates a marriage of strong will and nothing can come between that because it has been blessed through sacrifice. I hope you enjoyed this article 😘🙏❤️.
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P.S check out my you tube channel documenting my journey of stage 2B Cervical Cancer please follow the link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vwAElbvw3Mc&t=2s