Couples Date Night
Hello everyone, It’s Married Couples Monday and I wanted to reach out to the married people today. Do you attend date nights with your spouse even if you do not like the scenery yah or nay? Or you just do not go?
I use this topic in a Facebook group I’m in these are real people comments but I will not disclose their name due to privacy and group rules. However, this is a question based off my own personal aspects and testimonies.
I have always found it a bit uncomfortable when my spouse wants me to attend or go to something that I do not require interest in. Am I being selfish to his need? Is it right that he goes to everything I like to do but when it’s his turned I’m a bit of a downer hmm. Let’s look at some of the comments and advice received from married couples and their perspective pertaining to this topic.
Mary – said the right thing to do would be to attend. she thought that some spouses are sensitive, so she suggested that communicating with your spouse ahead of time so that you both would have a dialogue on what the other spouse like and dislike.
Sarah insisted yes, she would go if it’s something the spouse really enjoys explaining that marriage is made up of two people and it’s not always about what one person like.
Lexis said yes because she believes in compromising even though each spouse like different things you must sacrifice for each other.
Jill said no she will not attend somewhere she doesn’t like and that her spouse is ok with it.
All of these are intriguing to me but the thing in a marriage is that you never know what the other spouse like or dislike to the “T” if there is lack in communication and know sacrifice is being excepted plan ahead of time no last-minute date night building a marriage together requires teamwork. know that you are still growing with each other by the day and acknowledge to learn from each other not just one spouses way. I agree that if it’s positive and a safe environment why not attend. sometimes you must break the chain of selfishness and compromise with the other to indulge and make each other happy even if it’s a bit corky. marriage is all about making each other happy like the very first time you met each other neither spouse left behind.
What are some of the things you have told your spouse know to and then thought about it after he or she left?
Did you think am I being selfish? remember some spouse won’t speak just to make you happy but is that right? Not at all teamwork makes the marriage work.
Have a Bless Day Luv Bugs